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Trusting in yourself, in your abilities… wondering whether you can or not… A matter of faith in your own self… All these things are not the hardest thing to have but still a lot of people don’t yet.

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I’m not saying believe in yourself and what you want will happen. Instead I say BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and whatever happened you will be satisfied with it

If you don’t have that confidence yet, you still don’t know how to show what you’re able to do or have some difficulties about that. My advice to you is as simple as the sun in the sky: fake it until you make it. Yes, you can fake it, act as you have much confidence in you and your abilities. Act like you are good enough and above, and while time passing by; believe me, you will feel that you can trust, believe in and be sure about the abilities and good qualities of yourself. Learning who you are doesn’t happen overnight. For one thing, it can be hard to know which parts of you are you, and which parts are who you think you should be. You can always identify your strengths and weaknesses and then weigh those against what you enjoy.

Follow your dreams. By doing what other people want you to be and not having a speaking voice for yourself will actually swallow your confidence. Thus, try new stuff in your life, if you always do things as you’ve always done them of course you won’t feel confident. As Christopher Kaminski said once:

 Confidence is a funny thing. You go out and do the thing you’re most terrified of, and the confidence comes afterwards.

Confidence comes from success but confidence also combines another quality because you can be successful, yet lack confidence. It requires a mental attitude shift to an expectation of success. And this alone, can bring about more success, reinforcing the confidence. It spirals from there. You have to expect success. So being hopeful does help a lot in being a confident person. I would say at the end find the successes in every day and you’ll notice over time that they increase.

The 10 books Challenge

The 10 books Challenge is a challenge where you show or write down your favorite top ten books and you nominate afterwards another 10 people to do the same. It’s basically an exchange of informations kind of thing.

So here are my top ten books for the moment :

1/// the alchemist by paulo coelhotéléchargement

This book was actually requested for me by my arabic teacher ” Sir El Haddadi” three years ago and still one of my favorites since that time. This story, dazzling in its powerful simplicity and inspiring wisdom, is about an Andalusian shepherd boy named Santiago who travels from his homeland in Spain to the Egyptian desert in search of a treasure buried in the Pyramids. What I admire more about this novel is that it is brilliantly written. I highly recommend it for you guys. I’ve read it in its arabic version but it is available now in french, english and spanich version as well.

2/// If i stay by gayle formanimages

Okay so honestly I did not read the book until I’ve watched its movie.The book is a heartachingly beautiful one talking about the power of love, the true meaning of family, and the choices we all make. I recommand it for you guys. It is really fun to read.

3/// Reclaim your heart by Yasmin mogahed

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Let’s talk about the author firstly, Yasmin Mogahed. Besides being the person whom I’m looking up for, she has been since ever a source of inspiration to many other muslim girls. Her first book Reclaim Your Heart is not just a self-help book. It is a manual about the journey of the heart in and out of the ocean of this life. It is a book about how to keep your heart from sinking to the depths of that ocean, and what to do when it does. It is a book about redemption, about hope, about renewal. the reason behind the book is to teach readers how to live in this life without allowing life to own them.

4/// start where you are by chris gardner

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This is the second book that I read for Chris Gardner, whose life story both inspired the movie The Pursuit of Happyness and became a #1 New York Times bestseller by the same name has been inundated with two questions: “How Did You Do It” and “How Can I Do it Too?” Gardner’s power-packed, transformational reply is the basis of this long-anticipated book. I’m in love with real stories, I found them really helpful at least for me in different ways. You should definitely check it out. Reading this book will show you that whatever your dream is it would be possible by working hard. Chris Gardner dream was to own a Ferrari. He didn’t just make it happen but he owned two Ferraris. The author sayings are a lote but what I prefer is:

homeless but not hopeless

5/// نسيان (nissyan // obliviousness ) by Ahlam Mosteghanemi

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Ahlam Mostaghanemi who’s by the way an algerian author, has been one of top ten most influential women in the arab world. Her books are a peace of art and her words are brightly written. Nissyan, again it’s an arabic book but it’s translated now in english is one of her famous novels. It’s talking about feminism, love, some real facts and what we should conclude from all of it.

6/// 1Q84 by haruki murakami

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A love story, a mystery, a fantasy, a novel of self-discovery, a dystopia to rival George Orwell. 1Q84 is Haruki Murakami’s most ambitious undertaking yet an instant best seller in his native Japan, and a tremendous feat of imagination from one of our most revered contemporary writers. This book is huge, I’m not going to lie. It took me forever to finish reading it but it is so amazing.

7/// for bread alone by mohamed choukri 

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Another arabic book where the real title is الخبز الحافي is by the Moroccan author Mohamed Choukri. It is available is english and french version now. As I said earlier I love real stories and this book is one of them. A true story of human desperation, shattering in its impact. It’s an autobiographic type novel telling the life of Mohamed from the Rif mountains of Morocco during the late 40s and early 50s. His father is a drunk, unemployed and viscous, he kills one of Mohamed’s brothers. Mohamed then lives a life on the streets. He drinks, takes drugs and has a high sex drive which is relieved by various prostitutes. He earns money from labouring, petty crime and prostituting himself. He only has his body, health and youth on his side.This is a brutal tale of a young man who sees no future, has little hope, few friends, no legal standing and is illiterate. At the end of the book he decides to learn to read and write. The courage shown in this book is awe-inspiring. I recommand it for you guys if you hadn’t already read it.

8/// 12 years a slave by solomon northup

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12 Years A Slave is a powerful listen. Narrated by Louis Gossett, in a smooth tone that make you feel that he really was Solomon Northup, retelling his days and months and years with all of his rights as a free man stripped from him. What makes this book all the more breathtaking is that it is non fiction. Solomon shares with his readers the good, the bad, and the extreme ugliness of man during this time period. I found my heart heavy as I can not wrap my mind around what it had to have been like for the author during this time of loss of family, and loss of hope of ever seeing them again. The book shows what’s the real meaning of being a slave after being free. The book has been transformed into a movie. I didn’t watch it yet but I’m looking forward to see it.

9/// Delirium by Lauren Oliver

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Delirium is a book that I just finish reading past month and it was amazing. It has been also transformed into a movie. I adored Delirium when I first read and reviewed it. I had limited experience with dystopia, only having read The Hunger Games, and Matches, but Delirium made it one of favourite genres. I’ve come across many young dystopian novels since then, and having re-read Delirium, I can safely say that it is still one of my favourites and one of the best books I’ve read this year.

10/// hope and other dangerous pursuits by Laila LalamiHope and Other Dangerous Pursuits

Hope and Other Dangerous Pursuits marks the debut of an exciting new voice in fiction. Laila Lalami, a moroccan author evokes the grit and enduring grace that is modern Morocco. The book begins as four Moroccans illegally cross the Strait of Gibraltar in an inflatable boat headed for Spain. The story shows what has driven them to risk their lives and whether will the rewards prove to be worth the danger or not. Actually if you stand along the port area in Tangier you can look out across the Mediterranean and see Spain. It is a mere fourteen kilometres away, half an hour on the ferry. It is so close and tantalising that every year hundreds of people from Morocco and beyond risk their lives trying to reach that elusive land. Some make it, most do not. immigration has been and still an important subject for Moroccan people.

At the end I wanted to nominate you guys the readers of my blog to do the same! ^_^

Morning

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Whether it was a freezy rainy morning, a warm one or a hot sunny morning. I always enjoy it and absolutely adore mornings. I’ve get lately to know how much I love this time of the day actually more than sleeping itself. As crazy as it sounds it is true. It is the only time of the day when I feel absolutely carefree, young, happy and ready for the day! I don’t talk about any types of mornings I do talk about early mornings, during and right after the sun come up. It is definitely one of my highlights for all the time ever. So in this page, you’re gonna be sometimes seeing & reading about my mornings as it is one of my little joys.

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