Trusting in yourself, in your abilities… wondering whether you can or not… A matter of faith in your own self… All these things are not the hardest thing to have but still a lot of people don’t yet.
I’m not saying believe in yourself and what you want will happen. Instead I say BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and whatever happened you will be satisfied with it
If you don’t have that confidence yet, you still don’t know how to show what you’re able to do or have some difficulties about that. My advice to you is as simple as the sun in the sky: fake it until you make it. Yes, you can fake it, act as you have much confidence in you and your abilities. Act like you are good enough and above, and while time passing by; believe me, you will feel that you can trust, believe in and be sure about the abilities and good qualities of yourself. Learning who you are doesn’t happen overnight. For one thing, it can be hard to know which parts of you are you, and which parts are who you think you should be. You can always identify your strengths and weaknesses and then weigh those against what you enjoy.
Follow your dreams. By doing what other people want you to be and not having a speaking voice for yourself will actually swallow your confidence. Thus, try new stuff in your life, if you always do things as you’ve always done them of course you won’t feel confident. As Christopher Kaminski said once:
Confidence is a funny thing. You go out and do the thing you’re most terrified of, and the confidence comes afterwards.
Confidence comes from success but confidence also combines another quality because you can be successful, yet lack confidence. It requires a mental attitude shift to an expectation of success. And this alone, can bring about more success, reinforcing the confidence. It spirals from there. You have to expect success. So being hopeful does help a lot in being a confident person. I would say at the end find the successes in every day and you’ll notice over time that they increase.